Our dishwasher recently got grimey, so I went back to handwashing dishes. It’s not something I’ve done in years. Before I moved to Denmark, my family never used the dishwasher. In fact, ours wasn’t even a dishwasher — it was a storage unit  for things that had no home. Plastic forks. Cups. Random kitchen tools. My mother used to say, “It’s a waste of water.” So we washed everything by hand — bowls, chopsticks, pots — and I grew up believing dishwashers were just foreign devic